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Do you own a Saavarani?
#WhyDoWe Tell me you are Desi without telling me you are Desi... If you own a "Saavarani" "zaadu" or "peenchhi" raise your hand ✋🏾...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20211 min read
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Shraavan Mahino
#WhyDoWe What was self care and meditative life like for our grandparents? SHRAVAN MAHINO - Shraavan Month. Google may say it started...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20212 min read
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Share Your Debt and Sorrow
#WhyDoWe Would you tell people in your circle if you were in debt or terminally ill? “Dukh ane dard ek beejaa saathe vehchavu” (Share...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20212 min read
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Rotli
#WhyDoWe Tell me you are Desi without telling me you are Desi... Rotli no dabbo - Roti dabaa I remember when we spent our summers in...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20211 min read
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Do You 'Act' Your Age?
#WhyDoWe "Act your age" "Aa ummare aa badhu naa sobhe ("This doesn't suit you at this age") "At this age focus on Bhakti, raising...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20211 min read
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Oombaraa Pujan
#WhyDoWe Have you seen women around you cleaning the door frame (Oombaro) and putting kumkum dots or divo by it? Why do we do...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20212 min read
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Raising Daughters Like Sons
#WhyDoWe "I have raised my daughter like a son” (Maari dikari ne dikaraa ni jem moti kari chhe) hmmm... How about “I have raised my son...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20212 min read
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Judging Those Who Don't Speak English
#WhyDoWe We look the same, we dress the same, we eat the same food, then why do you say he is Bengali, Sri Lankan, Pakistani? And why are...
Vaishali A. Patel
Aug 17, 20212 min read
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Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Picks
The Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is one of the few sales I look forward to every year to buy splurge worthy items that I would otherwise...
Vaishali A. Patel
Jul 26, 20211 min read
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An Honest Experience with Marie Forleo's B-School
Working hard vs working smart We are a culture where working like a horse, being productive and utilizing our time and every minute to...
Vaishali A. Patel
Jul 18, 20213 min read
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